One of the assignments for our diversity training was to write down how people see you or what they assume about you versus all the things they can’t automatically see/assume, and I realized I had no idea how people perceive me and was only coming up with only vague ideas (gender/age/etc).

Like… I care about what people think (everyone please love me!)… but I also kinda don’t care about what people think, provided they just let me live my life and don’t bother me.

Then I realized that’s pretty privileged, to just be invisible and not be hassled by anyone because of who I am.

(But it did make me spiral into a mini-existential crisis because I realized I didn’t know how to define myself. Still don’t, tbh.)

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For the curious, MBC has signed an exclusive contract with Netflix to air Night Light (or White Lights as it’s called there). The episodes that have already aired are available on Korean Netflix (Korean subs only), and the full series will be available to 190 countries starting in January (with language-appropriate subs, presumably).

So, on the plus side, we at least know someone will be carrying it.

On the down side, we have to wait. Dammit.

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I forgot how fun it was watching tv with my bff (anything on tv – we’re not picky) and then commenting our way through it. We’re probably the most annoying people to watch tv with tbh but at least we make it into an interactive sport.

Before she got married and moved away, it used to be our regular Friday night habit – get takeaway and then plop ourselves down in front of her tv and catch up on each other’s week while talking to the tv. It’s not even snark – it’s just genuine befuddlement and warning the characters and making dumb jokes.

(This reminds me we have to make at least one night free to watch Grizzly Man and eat Indian food because that’s “our” thing and I can’t bear – heh – to watch Grizzly Man without her despite how much I love that movie.)

yahhajima:

obsessivedilettante:

Dumb question that I don’t really need to worry about for another month:

Make a new sign for Infinite’s concert or re-use the old one?

I say upgrade the old one ^_^

I am not crafty tho. Laziness may win out.

EDIT: Although since I’m on the other side of the theater, I might make one w/ the letters going the other diagonal direction. Because bizarrely seems to make sense to me. And none of that infinite symbol nonsense because that was stupid and my fingers and/or attention-span hated me as I tried to cut that out.